Okay, so the debate on women being objectified is a never ending topic these days but how many times they have been categorized? Pick up any part of the world you will find a woman being put into tags of a Girlfriend material or being a wife material. Okay so lets a take a closer look at ‘what’ actually is a Girlfriend? A female who knows how to give you a good sex or maybe who knows how to behave with you over a coffee date if that is not enough then she should not say something ‘lame’ over a sex chat and the list goes on. Now, What is a wife material? A female who is shy, She should not be a party animal, not very dominating, yeah, that is a must have quality and again the list just never stops.
A 19 years old female in the middle of her graduation was asked by her male classmate about her whereabouts,
“You come to the college and you leave by 5 and then you are at home, this is mysterious,” “Are you hiding something?”
To make the matter worse, when she tried to mingle at a college gala week she was put into a tag that she’s a party animal and loud. Sounds like women cannot have best of both worlds, they have to stick with one ‘theme’ that is attached to them!
A woman is not someone to put into categories. She can be anyone she wants to be even if it means to have multiple personalities. Everyone have different sides to them and we all have right to create potential out of it. After all, the life belongs to women as much as to every other living being. If she possesses a reserved outlook on life let her be her and if she likes to travel and being outgoing, let her be her again. No one likes being stereotyped and categories are for objects not for human beings.
Let me know in the comments sections below if you can’t agree enough to this.