Kinky sex includes a lot of stuff like everything from bondage to BDSM and role play so it can be quite intimidating! Stepping out of your comfort zone and going for kinky sex can be a hard decision for a girl. It take a lot of courage and you need to have utmost trust in your partner to try all this stuff!
First thing you need to do is accept that you are into kink.
Read on to find out all about kinky sex:
1. It’s different for all
Since kinky stuff is done from your imagination, it is different for all. everyone has a different fantasy and different likes and dislikes. Some like to inflict pain on their partner and receive same while some simply tie their partners or get tied during sex.
2. Trust, communication and consent are a must!
while all this are a key for any kind of sex but they become more vital here because you are stepping out of your comfort zone! You need to share your worries, your fantasies and your issues with your partner to get the best experience and not get hurt from it!
3. Set boundaries
You may get lost in the fantasy of kinky sex so it is advisable to set some boundaries which must not be crossed for healthy sex. Discuss and decide what will work for you both and what won’t so both get the best out of it.
4. Research
Explore your body and find out what excites you or what are your fantasies.
Read more and more and then some more about kinky things, find out what will be your calling then discuss it with your partner. sometimes you may also need to read about how to break this to your partner. So do your research!
5. Small things go long
So start with small things, test the waters. Do not go out for a full fledged bondage sex in a instant, try simple tying and teasing first, make your body and mind comfortable. Let your partner become comfortable and then slowly introduce new things every other time you go for it.
6. Sex toys will be big help
Sex toys help to increase the pleasure of kinky sex. We are not saying that you go for neck restraints or scarves to tie necks, but going for a safe set of restraints is probably a good idea. While your research find out the toy that you find best to use for striking. Toys matter but how you are using them and where matters too. So be careful!
7. First time might not be as pleasurable as it looks
Do not panic when you do not feel as good as you thought in your first attempt. You need to try different things or the same things differently for finding out your favourite style and finally enjoying it.
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