The moment you get in a relationship, you start reading relationship columns, the things that are least related to it are now on your reading list and they give a lot of advice for a successful relationship. If that was not enough you have your friends telling you all kinds of dos and donts. Some of what is really useful but a lot of it is something you should completely ignore.
Here are a few pieces of advice you should not waste your time on.
1. Never go to sleep angry
You should solve your issues as early as possible but sometimes it is ok to go to sleep if both of you are angry and none of you is ready to hear a thing. Chances are by morning you will be fresh and will think more rationally as compared to the night when you are tired and feeling sleepy.
2. Playing games
You are in a relationship and not at olympics that you will be playing games with your partner. Be yourself, talk to him about your feelings and your expectations instead of playing games with him.
3. Have sex/Get married/Have babies
If you have issues in your relationship then you need to work on them and try to solve them instead of doing something which you may regret later as it will not save your relationship. Only thing that can save your relationship is solving the issues that are a problem for you two.
4. For a happy relationship keep your man always happy
Yes, it is true that for a happy relationship the two of you should be happy and not just the man. You should do things to please him and so should your guy. It is a mutual process and you both should be making each other happy. Also, don’t do things just to please him. Do what comes naturally to you.
5. Be an open book to your partner
You are in relationship with each other and you should be sharing things with each other. But that does not make it as a rule to share the minutest detail or something which you don’t want to tell anybody. Same goes for him. There are tales that are best left untold.
6. You should settle
You both have reached a certain age or it has been really long since you two are dating, now you should settle down. Don’t let these things bother you. Settle with each other when you want to and when you feel it is the right time.
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