Different people, different sex styles, different sex stories. And trust me, we all have had the embarrassing sex moments at least once in our lives. Be it the noise, the position, or any other thing that you think is weird AF. Don’t worry cuz you aren’t alone in this. But remember to talk about this, make fun and just ignore it at the end of the day without feeling clumsy or ashamed.
Here are a few things embarrassing parts of sex that are completely normal, so just enjoy, and have fun!
1. Sounds Are Made
Between friction, rubbing, slidding, and grabbing, a sound or two is going to be made every now and then. It might surprise you for a second or two, but it’s not the worst thing that could happen. Ignore it or laugh it off.
2. Squirting Is Normal
Our body is full of various types of fluid. And your partner should be proud, they left you satisfied man!!
3. You Might Want To Know Your Kinky Interests Now
All those naughty actions and different poses, and going hard all the way. You had no idea that you could actually enjoy them all. Don’t be ashamed. Your body and your sex life are your own. If you never try it, then how do you know if you hate it?
4. You Don’t Always Have A Happy Climax
Sometimes your body and mind are on two different paths. You don’t always need to finish the race. While getting to the end can be THE BEST, sometimes the journey is satisfying enough. Maybe you have to stop worrying about office problems, and other tensions and just enjoy the process.
5. Sometimes you need to lend a hand (or a toy)
Sometimes the person you’re having sex with might not be the best at reading your bodily needs. Give them a helping hand (or toy) by leading them towards your sweet spot or simply telling them your needs. It’s normal, trust me.
6. Again I Repeat, Sex Toys Are Normal To Use! Chill
There is nothing wrong with using toys in the bedroom. In fact, it can be quite a pleasurable experience. Shop around online to see what may be your best fit. Your sexual life is your private life. Why make excuses?
7. Sexting/Sex Talk Actually Works
Sometimes a few simple words can send you over the edge. Play around to find the limit that you’re comfortable with. Sex is an adventure — make sure you’re getting the most out of it.
8. Sex During Your Peroids NOT ew!
It is very normal and okay to have sex when you are on your periods. And some people actually enjoy the extra lubrication. And, even if it’s not your thing, remember — it’s kind of normal for your body to do that every month.
9. Maybe You Are Not That Into It or Him?
Did you realize half-way through that the person you are sleeping with is a whatever case? Yep, forget about that orgasm. That loser wasn’t worth it anyway. We’ve all been there, but don’t worry — you’re not stuck with this person. If you don’t feel comfortable during sex in any way (physically or emotionally), be sure to let your partner know ASAP and move on.